It's Friday! I made it a whole week with blogging Monday thru Friday! I just finished watching Dolphin Tale for the second time and it's a beautiful story. I was trying really hard not to cry. Now before I forget I just want to wish everyone a Happy Lunar New Year! It's the year of the Horse! I am a horse born in 1990 so I'm looking forward to this Chinese New Year. Anyway, onto the advice.
Anonymous Asked:
Everyday during volleyball we have to get partners and do our exercises
and warmups. It's day three so we just started. The problem is there are so
many groups of best friends and I have no friends on the team. Half of the team is made up of a group of snotty popular girls who I can't stand,
they are usually pretty rude to me and I don't know why. The rest of the girls I
don't know. I tried to be friends with the nice ones but they seem to
shut out anyone who isn't part of their group, that's how they all are. When we
are told to partner up I try but there's no chance for me because the
best friends automatically pick each other and I'm always left alone to
be partnered with a helper because we have an odd team. I try asking to
be partners but they always ignore me and I don't know why.
I told my mom and she told me to try and talk to them, but they usually
talk about other people I don't know. I tried
everything that people have told me and I always try to be kind to them
and smile. I don't know what else I can do.
I can't quit because two already did and if anyone else does we can't have
a team. I really like the playing part but I feel so lonely. I don't know what else to try, help?
Dear Anonymous,
Maybe you could try inviting the team for a get together at your house
or some place. Talk to the coach and figure out how the whole team can
bond together, get to know each other outside of their own groups and
maybe you'll be able to talk to the other girls and have them get to
know you as well. I remember growing up, I was never really on any
sports teams but my cousin was, and she always had sleepovers with her
teammates. It was a way for them to bond and to also get to know each
other.
Be Beautiful For You
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt
Friday, January 31, 2014
Thursday, January 30, 2014
Thursday Beauty: January Makeup Favorites
The year has just started and so much has already happened. In the beginning of the month I had been so busy with work and it was not fun at all. If you can avoid working retail I suggest doing so because it's no picnic. I love cliche expressions. Anyway, I don't really wear makeup daily but on the days that I did there were some products that I used all the time.
I am a huge Benefit Cosmetic fan, I've been using their products since I was 16. I would go to Macy's and stop at the Benefit counter to get my makeup done for school dances and they did an amazing job. There was one girl who always did my makeup for a couple years. She was then relocated to a different Macy's after I graduated of course. She was so sweet and always knew how I wanted to look. Anyway, for awhile I didn't buy makeup from Benefit because it was too expensive since I had to start paying for my own makeup. Growing up problems; I have to pay for myself.
Benefit Fake Up Concealer |
Wednesday, January 29, 2014
12th Woman
Since this weekend is Super Bowl Sunday and I live in Seattle and I am a very proud and loud fan of the Seattle Seahawks, I thought today's outfit would be my outfit for this Sunday. Love them or hate them, this team has really proven their worth this year. It is our time!
Be Beautiful For You!
Be Beautiful For You!
Tuesday, January 28, 2014
It's Love
Yeah, I want to know where you go when you're going
We can take it slow if you don't show that you're slowing
You can try to save me if you're crazy
But I want to know if we go, where we're going to
We can take it slow if you don't show that you're slowing
You can try to save me if you're crazy
But I want to know if we go, where we're going to
As a New Year's Resolution, I thought I should start to open my heart more. I've guarded my heart for over a year and a half now but I've kept my mind open for someone I feel is right for me and that I am right for him. It's hard for me put myself out there, to put my heart on the line that is. Especially with a guy who I'm afraid to lose.
Monday, January 27, 2014
Monday Thoughts: A Single Soul Dwelling In Two Bodies
"What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies." ~Aristotle
Last night my best friend texted me asking why he is my best friend because for the past month he hasn't been around a lot. He openly admitted that he is a shitty best friend. I agreed with him but I also assured him that he's my best friend for a reason. That reason being he's the only one I feel comfortable telling things to without stopping myself. I open up to him and it's hard for me not to tell him how I feel when he asks. Or even when he doesn't ask, I tell him because he wants me to and he likes that I am comfortable enough to tell him.
Last night my best friend texted me asking why he is my best friend because for the past month he hasn't been around a lot. He openly admitted that he is a shitty best friend. I agreed with him but I also assured him that he's my best friend for a reason. That reason being he's the only one I feel comfortable telling things to without stopping myself. I open up to him and it's hard for me not to tell him how I feel when he asks. Or even when he doesn't ask, I tell him because he wants me to and he likes that I am comfortable enough to tell him.
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