Happy New Year! I hope you're all excited for the new year, I know I am. I can't wait for new changes, new additions to my family and the new things to come in my life for the new year. I'll be ending the year with Friday Advice and will start the new year writing about what I hope happens. Onto my advice!
Anonymous Asked:
I'm in need of lots of help
I'm pregnant with a little girl..yes i am fourteen and a freshman but the dads 16 and a sophomore and he promised to help me through everything even if we break up but I still don't know if i should keep her or put her up for adoption. If I keep her I'm going to name her Paiton. When I told my parents they looked at me then walked upstairs and put all of my stuff in bags and said I hope you have a great life with you new family but its now time to say goodbye to your old one. And now I live with my boyfriend and his amazing family and they said that the baby can have the room connecting to mine and my boyfriends sisters can share a room. So basically just tell me what to do with my life.
Dear Anonymous
You have to do what's best for the baby and what's best for the baby is giving her the best chance at a good life. If you can give her a good life with a stable home then keep her but if you can't then look into adoption and find a couple that can give her a good life and a stable home to live in. It's not just your life anymore it's her's. I was once told that love is choosing the higher good for the other person at the risk of losing them. Just something I thought I'd share with you.
Friday, December 30, 2011
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Looking Back at Me
High school was a wondrous time for me. I made new friends, I met some interesting people, learned some fascinating things and also figured out who I was. I stood my ground on everything I believed in and I didn't get pushed around by anyone. Although drama was hard to steer clear of, I managed to do so for half of my high school career. Freshman and sophomore year weren't my best years because of boys and me causing drama. But with the drama, I realized who my true friends were.
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Family Parties!
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| This happens when I'm with my other other family |
I highly enjoy sitting around my Grandparent's living room and talking to my cousin. Actually I feel that as we got older we moved from the bedrooms to the living room thus making the house feel crowded and really hot when it's freezing outside. The beautiful thing is that we're all together and we're not fighting. For once actually we all agreed on one thing: my cousin's engagement was probably not the best idea he has had but who love him and we support him. It seems that every year my family seems to grow more and more and to me it's a beautiful thing.
Be Beautiful For You!
Friday, December 23, 2011
Friday: He Smokes; Back to the Ex; Age Problem?
Happy Holidays everyone! I hope you guys have a wonderful weekend with friends and family. My treat to you is just some advice. Sorry it's not a giveaway or anything like that. Maybe next year. :)
Anonymous Asked:
I like this guy but he smokes, and I would never do that.
What do I do? Get over him? He also hangs out with people who smoke.
Dear Anonymous
Just because he does, doesn't mean he'll make you if you happen to date him. Especially if he cares about you.
When I was 16 my first boyfriend smoked, and did drugs but I never did. One because I stuck to what I believed in and two because he didn't want me to do any of those things because he knew they were bad and although he knew they were bad he still did them anyway.
From my own experience I would say get over him but that's really up to you. I was always worried about my ex when we were dating because sometimes he didn't even come to school or his friends influenced him to skip classes and I was just always worried. If you want to talk about it more feel free to message me.
Anonymous Asked:
I like this guy but he smokes, and I would never do that.
What do I do? Get over him? He also hangs out with people who smoke.
Dear Anonymous
Just because he does, doesn't mean he'll make you if you happen to date him. Especially if he cares about you.
When I was 16 my first boyfriend smoked, and did drugs but I never did. One because I stuck to what I believed in and two because he didn't want me to do any of those things because he knew they were bad and although he knew they were bad he still did them anyway.
From my own experience I would say get over him but that's really up to you. I was always worried about my ex when we were dating because sometimes he didn't even come to school or his friends influenced him to skip classes and I was just always worried. If you want to talk about it more feel free to message me.
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Time of The Month
We all dread that time of the month; you know the time when Aunt Flo comes to visit and it's a dreadful occasion. Yes, that is what I am talking about. The cramps, the bloating, the uncomfortable pads and/or tampons and just the feeling of it all together isn't the best feeling in the world. In fact, I'll stay in bed most of the day and just watch reruns of Merlin or Roswell. Haha I do that when I'm home anyway.
There are plenty of ways to deal with this time and I find that during my time, I crave chocolate more than ever and I have chocolate like everyday even when I'm not on my period. I also tend to be even more lazier than I already am. And with the ovarian cyst I have my cramps are horrible although being on the pill lessens the pain.
There are plenty of ways to deal with this time and I find that during my time, I crave chocolate more than ever and I have chocolate like everyday even when I'm not on my period. I also tend to be even more lazier than I already am. And with the ovarian cyst I have my cramps are horrible although being on the pill lessens the pain.
Monday, December 19, 2011
Took The Week Off
If you didn't know I try really hard to post on my blog Monday-Friday but I took last week off because I was so tired and I really wasn't sure what to blog about as well. I also spent the week doing a lot of thinking and going over my life and the guys in it so for a few days I was an emotional wreck. I'm slightly better, had to do somethings that were a little hard to do but that's life.
Life is about doing things you have to do even if you don't want to do it. That's what we like to call the real world. Not the MTV TV show, although I did really like The Real World Cancun; Joey Rozmus was my favorite person on that show. Anyway, I just thought I'd say that I am back but don't expect a blog post everyday. However I would like to try my hardest to post Monday-Friday and I would really appreciate it if you do comment so I know someone is out there reading my blog. Whether you liked it or not, I'd love some feedback.
I write my blogs to maybe help a little and I want to know if in some way I am being helpful.
Be Beautiful For You
Life is about doing things you have to do even if you don't want to do it. That's what we like to call the real world. Not the MTV TV show, although I did really like The Real World Cancun; Joey Rozmus was my favorite person on that show. Anyway, I just thought I'd say that I am back but don't expect a blog post everyday. However I would like to try my hardest to post Monday-Friday and I would really appreciate it if you do comment so I know someone is out there reading my blog. Whether you liked it or not, I'd love some feedback.
I write my blogs to maybe help a little and I want to know if in some way I am being helpful.
Be Beautiful For You
Friday, December 9, 2011
Friday: Baby Daddy Issues, Figuring Out If He's The One, Stay with Him?
Happy Friday! And Happy End of Finals for some College Students! I was done yesterday and I found out today that I passed all my classes. Yay for me!
A_Tahe Asked:
I'm having a baby in March and already having Daddy Issues.
Okay well I've been planning to move in with my boyfriend he has his own place and it'll be good for the baby, he wants me to move in like really really wants me to! But the problem is that he always has his friends over like everyday they even stay there sometimes like its their house!
They party there and smoke a lot, sometimes a fight will break out for no reason at all because they're all drunk. (i know what your thinking what kind of bf is he huh? but hes my baby's daddy and i love him no matter how twisted he is)
I never say anything because its not my place. I know it wont be good for the baby if he keeps this up, I just don't know the best way to talk to him about a lot of people being there.
I just wanna know what would you do in my situation?
Dear A_Tahe
In this situation I would tell him that if he wants me to live there then things are going to have to change. His friends can come over but they can't stay. No more smoking inside, limiting on drinking and stuff like that because it's not good for you to be around while you're pregnant and you want to create an environment that you can bring the baby to live in and it's safe for that baby. Think about the baby more than him or you because that's your life now and I'm sure you already know that.
A_Tahe Asked:
I'm having a baby in March and already having Daddy Issues.
Okay well I've been planning to move in with my boyfriend he has his own place and it'll be good for the baby, he wants me to move in like really really wants me to! But the problem is that he always has his friends over like everyday they even stay there sometimes like its their house!
They party there and smoke a lot, sometimes a fight will break out for no reason at all because they're all drunk. (i know what your thinking what kind of bf is he huh? but hes my baby's daddy and i love him no matter how twisted he is)
I never say anything because its not my place. I know it wont be good for the baby if he keeps this up, I just don't know the best way to talk to him about a lot of people being there.
I just wanna know what would you do in my situation?
Dear A_Tahe
In this situation I would tell him that if he wants me to live there then things are going to have to change. His friends can come over but they can't stay. No more smoking inside, limiting on drinking and stuff like that because it's not good for you to be around while you're pregnant and you want to create an environment that you can bring the baby to live in and it's safe for that baby. Think about the baby more than him or you because that's your life now and I'm sure you already know that.
Thursday, December 8, 2011
My Guys: Kenny
We met in the ninth grade, we had a lot of classes together all through high school and he's always been there for me just like I'm always there for him but then again I've always had a soft spot for him.
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
Holiday Sugar Cookies
I love making sugar cookies especially since chocolate chip cookies are out of the question because my cousin makes the best chocolate chip cookies so I decided I'd go for sugar cookies because I can cut them out any way I want. Today I made sugar cookies with one of my oldest friend's Tyler because he'll be leaving for BYU at the end of the month. He just got back from his Mission back in October so this was the first time since he's been back that I get to hang out with him without other people.
Anyway, the recipe we used can be found here. And let me say that they were soft and chewy but we had some problems with the dough, it was a little too sticky but we added about a cup more of flour and it was good after that. We had fun though, talking, catching up on life, remembering high school and some of the crazy things out friends did.
I highly suggest baking with a friend, boyfriend or girlfriend because it can be a great experience.
Be Beautiful For You!
Anyway, the recipe we used can be found here. And let me say that they were soft and chewy but we had some problems with the dough, it was a little too sticky but we added about a cup more of flour and it was good after that. We had fun though, talking, catching up on life, remembering high school and some of the crazy things out friends did.I highly suggest baking with a friend, boyfriend or girlfriend because it can be a great experience.
Be Beautiful For You!
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Holiday Outfit
Tis' the season for dressing up for Holiday Parties and Winter Formals.
Stay bundled up during the cold weather.
Be Beautiful For You
Stay bundled up during the cold weather.
Be Beautiful For You
Monday, December 5, 2011
Other Half ♥
Right now I am in this phase where I know who I am, I love who I am but I feel like something is missing. Furthermore, I've come to conclusion I want to find my other half and maybe I have. I've had fun flirting and meeting some awesome guys but I'm ready to "settle down." I'm not ready to be married but I'm ready to be in a real relationship where it can possibly turn to marriage.
So what I am looking for? I'm going to be very honest with whoever is reading this, I made a list all throughout high school. And it's not like what color eyes he has or what color hair he has or anything that detailed. It's who he is and what he does to me mentally, emotionally and possibly physically. Sure I want to be able to stare in his eyes, and run my fingers through his hair but I want to connect with him more than anything.
I said in a previous post that when you know yourself, and love yourself then you know what your other half is suppose to be for you. My dad knew he found his other half when he met my mom. I know it won't always be like that but I'm pretty sure in your mind you know when you've found that person who you can see yourself having a lifetime of memories together. I don't know if I'm writing this because I believe I've found that guy or if I'm writing this because I feel like I need to get my thought out there.
I highly believe in soul-mates and I know mine is there. Our love will be beautiful.
Be Beautiful For You
So what I am looking for? I'm going to be very honest with whoever is reading this, I made a list all throughout high school. And it's not like what color eyes he has or what color hair he has or anything that detailed. It's who he is and what he does to me mentally, emotionally and possibly physically. Sure I want to be able to stare in his eyes, and run my fingers through his hair but I want to connect with him more than anything.
I said in a previous post that when you know yourself, and love yourself then you know what your other half is suppose to be for you. My dad knew he found his other half when he met my mom. I know it won't always be like that but I'm pretty sure in your mind you know when you've found that person who you can see yourself having a lifetime of memories together. I don't know if I'm writing this because I believe I've found that guy or if I'm writing this because I feel like I need to get my thought out there.
I highly believe in soul-mates and I know mine is there. Our love will be beautiful.
Be Beautiful For You
Friday, December 2, 2011
Friday: First Time Mistake, He's Texting the Ex, Boyfriend with Cancer?
First, I want to say Happy Birthday to my good friend Paul and my beautiful cousin Chloe; they both turned 21 today and I am so excited that I finally have someone to drink for the rest of the Holiday season.
Now let's get on with my advice for this week. :) Happy December!
Anonymous Asked:
Did I make a big mistake? Please I need help.
I dated this boy 2 years ago for a while, but he broke up with me. We have been of and on since then. I am still in love with him and want to be with him. We never 'officially' got together but we did stuff and hung out and talked like we were.
A few weeks ago I went to a party with him, and we had sex. It was my first time, but not his. I thought that if I did it with him then he would want to get back together but I was wrong.
We talked the day after and he told me he didn't want a relationship. I love him and want to be with him. I think I made a mistake though, losing my virginity to him.
I can't talk to anyone about this so can you please help me!? Did I make a mistake? What should I do?
Dear Anonymous
You lost your virginity to someone you love but didn't love you back. Yes, it was a mistake but there's really nothing you can do about it now. The only thing you can do is wait for someone who loves you and you love them before you should have sex again.
I'm sorry this had to happen to you. No girl deserves that especially during their first time.
Try your best to get over this guy because he doesn't deserve you. He is not worthy of what you offered him.
Now let's get on with my advice for this week. :) Happy December!
Anonymous Asked:
Did I make a big mistake? Please I need help.
I dated this boy 2 years ago for a while, but he broke up with me. We have been of and on since then. I am still in love with him and want to be with him. We never 'officially' got together but we did stuff and hung out and talked like we were.
A few weeks ago I went to a party with him, and we had sex. It was my first time, but not his. I thought that if I did it with him then he would want to get back together but I was wrong.
We talked the day after and he told me he didn't want a relationship. I love him and want to be with him. I think I made a mistake though, losing my virginity to him.
I can't talk to anyone about this so can you please help me!? Did I make a mistake? What should I do?
Dear Anonymous
You lost your virginity to someone you love but didn't love you back. Yes, it was a mistake but there's really nothing you can do about it now. The only thing you can do is wait for someone who loves you and you love them before you should have sex again.
I'm sorry this had to happen to you. No girl deserves that especially during their first time.
Try your best to get over this guy because he doesn't deserve you. He is not worthy of what you offered him.
Thursday, December 1, 2011
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