It's Friday advice night! I haven't done this in so long and apologize to anyone who actually reads my blog and misses my advice. I've been busy and now I believe I'll have more time to blog regularly like I use to, Monday through Friday. No promises.
Anonymous Asked:
Is it bad that I don' care that I lost my virginity?
I always said I would save myself until marriage, but then over the
summer I wound up losing it to my boyfriend at the time, and to be honest, I didn't even really
like him that much (I mean I did, but no where close to love). It
wasn't special or romantic or anything like that either.. so maybe
that's why I don't really care, I dunno. I just always see people who go
on about how having se.x for the first time is such a huge deal, and it
just wasn't like that to me. I barely even think about it anymore to be
perfectly honest, and it only happened back in June. The majority of
people are like, oh I regret losing my virginity when I did, etc. But I
seriously could just care less. I don't really have any feelings about
what happened and I feel like that's really terrible though that I
don't, is it? I mean after having it I really don't understand why
people do wait until marriage to tell you the truth, because it's just sex. I guess it's special when it's with someone you love
and everything, but still, it's nothing that spectacular. Am I wrong for thinking this way?
Dear Anonymous,
There's sex and there's making love. I think you don't regret losing it
because you weren't making love you were just having sex with a guy you
didn't even really like so of course it doesn't seem special to you. But
you make love that's when it's worth waiting for, when you make love it
is so much more passionate than sex.
You're not wrong to think the way you are thinking, we all have our own
thoughts when it comes to sex. That's just my thought on why you might
be feeling a little confused on why you don't think it's nothing
special.
