Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Boy Advice: Get Your Flirt On

It seems to me that a lot of girls ask for flirting advice, either in person, texting, over the phone, and Facebook or whatever social network.
The key to flirting is to not think about it. Let it come to you naturally because if force it, you'll end up looking like you're trying too hard and you don't want that. So relax and just have fun with it.
I was admiring his shiny shoes. (Compliment)


Flirting Tips:
~Smile
~Eye Contact
~Compliments
~Teasing in a friendly way
~Touch

Smile! It's the most friendly flirty thing to do. Not only should you smile with those beautiful lips but with those gorgeous eyes. Your eyes are a wonderful gift whether you like them or not; use them and play them up for the cutie. Look in his eyes for three seconds if you're not good with eye contact, and then look down at his lips and back up at his eyes and smile.  So work on your smile and try to smile more with your eyes. Happy thoughts!
Compliment or tease him. He'll be impressed that you're taking notice of him and it'll boost his ego. Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere, and genuine. Tease him a friendly way, use what you know about him that is silly but cute to tease him with. Push him lightly if you're teasing him and smile so he knows that it's just a joke but don't do that all the time, just every once in awhile. 
If you're bold, don't be afraid to make contact with him. Give him a hug to greet him and hug when he leaves, hugs are the best. When you talk to him alone, speak softly so he'll have to come closer next to you. If you're walking together, link your arms together or if you think he likes you, hold his hand. 

When it comes to texting smiley faces are helpful; wink at him, stick out your tongue or give him a big smile :D. You can still use the compliments or teasing while you text but since he can't see you, let him think about you. I do not advise sexting or dirty pictures because it can come back to you. Think of it this way, if he respects you, he won't be asking you to do that and don't do it because you feel like he'll only like you because of them. Respect yourself and make sure he's being respectful as well. 
Be witty in conversation, if the conversation doesn't seem to be going anywhere then he's either busy or not into the topic. Think before you send though, this also probably why he takes awhile to text because he wants to make sure its okay to send and you should do the same. 
Remember to relax, be witty, be yourself but flirty, have fun, compliment, tease and don't force yourself to flirt.
If you have any flirting tips add them in the comments below. 

Be Beautiful For You!

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