Friday: Breakout Problems; College Studying; Scared of High School

It's Friday and the end of August which means summer is ending and autumn is near or in my case it's just a few days away. Anyway, I hope everyone has a good weekend. I will be hiatus until November. September is the start of something new for me and it'll take awhile for to adjust so here's the last of my advice for awhile.

InsecurityStinks Asked:
How do I change my appearance before school starts next week?
My mom doesn't like me wearing makeup she thinks I'm too young but I started to break out since January. I have dark spots, my face is always oily and my skin is uneven I want to look different so I can feel better about myself :(

Dear InsecurityStinks,
Well your skin is a reflection of your inside, so you want to make sure that what you're putting into your body is healthy so cut down on any sugar, salty, or fatty foods that you may be eating and also drink plenty of water.
Come up with a facial routine. I don't wear a lot of makeup because I do my best to keep my face clean. So make sure you wash your face in the morning and at night as well as moisturizing your face as well. To help with dark spots naturally use lemon juice on the spots every morning and night until it fades away.

Thursday Beauty: DIY Sea Salt Spray

I know summer is coming to an end very soon but I think beachy waves can be beautiful anytime of the year for a casual look but I seriously hate spending the money on pricey sea salt spray. I've found a great DIY Sea Salt Spray.

Ingredients:
1 tsp Sea Salt
1 tsp Cocoanut Oil
1 tsp gel
1 cup warm water

Directions:
Combine all ingredients into a spray bottle. Mix and shake well. Simple as that. Make sure the salt and oil dissolves thoroughly.

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Casually Fancy

Casually Fancy by berry557 featuring short skirts

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Counting Down

Next month, I start a new chapter in my life. I'm getting my first job at Macy's and I'm excited, but surprisingly I'm not nervous. I know it's something I can do because I know I can work and do tasks daily. Although I'm unsure of what I'm getting into because what if, this job isn't for me? What if being in retail isn't for me? Well I won't know until I try. Just like many things in life, you won't know until you try for yourself. Now, not only am I starting a new job but I'm also counting down the days until my friends go back to college. So working will give me a way to fill the void that will soon be in my life.
I'm going to miss seeing my friends from high school on a weekly basis. Although, it's probably not a good idea to count down the days until they're gone. I think I'll miss Paul the most though. He's hilarious and seriously the one guy I don't have to worry about but at the same time I worry about him all the time. I mean most of the summer I had to drag him off the couch to go out and do something other then sit home all day watching TV. I love the guy but for crying out loud, it was his summer before his senior year of college, he had to make some memories.
There are just something that will keep me busy for the next couple months so Friday will be my last post for a couple months. I'll summarize the important things when I get everything in place.
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My Future, Not My Past

Growing up, I've made a few mistakes with friends, family and my own life. I've lost some friends because of my actions and just who I am or was in general. I'm not always proud of actions, they can keep me up at night and haunt me in my sleep but I can't and won't let them define my future.
I know I'm not perfect and can sometimes be a crappy friend but those who love me stick with me and I appreciate them for everything they do or have done for me. I believe that everyone needs to remember that what happened in our past doesn't always reflect what will happen in our future.
If a person wants a nice home, and good job when they're older but they're being lazy and not motivated then they won't be getting that nice home and good job when they're older. They have to change their ways if what they're doing now isn't getting them closer to their dream.
I want to own a Bakery or an Inn when I get older. I can't stay at home and do nothing. I have to do something, I have to  get a business degree to understand what I'm getting into and I have to get a degree in culinary arts in order to gain more experience. 
Motivation is key when reaching any goal, keeping my eye on the prize, my future instead of reflecting on things I did in my past because that's all behind me; I have something amazing ahead.
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Friday: High School Boys; Unable to Date; Cheating

Happy Friday! I don't have any plans this weekend. Kind of hoping for a lazy weekend. Crossing my fingers!

Anonymous Asked:
Hi, going into high school here. I am just nervous about the dudes in high school now. I have had past problems with getting sexually harassed, so I am pretty scared about some of the guys. Yes, I am still a virgin, so I am basically scared that it isn't going to be easy to tell a guy to keep his hands off me or I will punch him in the b.a.l.l.s. Is the high school guys that bad or am I just over reacting? 

Dear Anonymous,
It's actually not as bad as you're thinking. I never had a problem like that. Although I was friends with a lot of guys who protected me from other guys. Guys in high school are a little more mature and a lot know when no means no.

Thursday Beauty: Yolk Mask

Egg Yolk

I'm having this health kick so I'm eating a lot of egg whites which is kind of wasteful if I don't use the yolk for something so I use it as a mask. All you need is an egg yolk and about ten minutes.
Why egg yolk? Well the yolk is suppose to help heal any blemishes and I've had two on my on my forehead that have been bugging me like crazy.

Ingredients: 
1 Egg Yolk

Directions: 
Simply spread the egg yolk gently and equally with a facial mask brush or spatula on your clean face and neck; keep the eye area clear. Leave on for 10 minutes and rinse off with cold water.

My thoughts:
The yolk mask is simple and easy to do. It doesn't take that long and it's something I already have at home and it's something a lot of people have at home. It's weird to have egg on your face but it's good for your skin. I recommend it to anyone who is looking for any easy face mask.

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Job Interview

Job Interview by berry557 featuring bow shoes

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The Joys of Music

I love music, it's my life, and a lot of people may say it but not a lot of people actually live it. One of my best friends is a music producer at Surf Street Studios located in Orlando Florida. Before that, during high school he became a DJ and so I got a lot of my music, and love of music from him. Not only do I have a friend in the music production business but I have friends who are in bands, not yet famous but one day, and friends who have such amazing, musical talents, that I would love to share with people.
Here are a few bands and artists with links to their music:
~Corbin Sterling
~Haverly
~Seize the Sun
~Red Fern
~Chasing Harmony

These are just a few. I will be adding onto this list, of not only of my friends but as well as artists that I listen to, that aren't well known but I hope one day they will be.
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My Shopping Ways

I go shopping pretty much every weekend and I get at least one new item when I go shopping. My mom and I actually spend Saturday mornings together. We go shopping and then have lunch together. It's our way of spending time together. My mom is truly my best friend, we're able to talk to each other about anything and everything.
Anyway, when I shop I always think about what I'm looking for. I browse online first for the latest fashion or trends and I look through my closet to see what I have and what I need. I don't shop aimlessly because sometimes I do shop with boys so I have to be in and out of a store as soon as possible. So I have to know what I'm looking for before I actually shop in store.
Just yesterday, my friend basically kidnapped me to go shopping with him and his little sister. I was actually looking for some bracelets because I'm tired of wearing my hair ties but I couldn't find any. I ended up instead buying a new sweater dress for the fall/winter. Actually, he bought it for me because I'm his best friend and he loves me, and his sister told him to buy it for me. :)
This is just how I shop. I think people should think about what they need to buy, price things out, and decide whether to save or splurge on an item. Just a little tip. 

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Friday: Changed Feelings; Friend's Ex; Another Chance

Happy Friday! I am all done with summer classes! I can't wait for the weekend with friends. But I can wait for the long hard struggle of finding a job now that I'm done with school, for now. I'm actually looking into culinary schools and will probably be start next year.
Let's get down to the advice. :-)

Anonymous Asked:
I have a boyfriend but I think my feelings for him are changing. 
I'm not sure what to do. He is leaving for university so I dunno if I should break up with him so he can find someone else there or if I should hope everything works out. What do you think? 

Dear Anonymous,
What are you more leaning towards? Do you want still be in this relationship? Don't think about him going off to university. Think about the relationship. Think about how you feel about him. I think you have to think about your feelings for him before you decide to break up with him. Don't let him going a way be a factor though. 

Thursday Beauty: Strawberry Teeth Whitening

I love strawberries, I actually got my nickname Ashberry because of my love for strawberries when I was younger. My aunts and uncles call me Ashberry. Anyway, many years ago I found out that strawberries can be used as a natural teeth whitener. I thought that I would share this with my readers just in case they didn't already know.

Ingredients:
1 Ripe Strawberry
1/2 tsp Baking Soda

Directions:
Crush the strawberry into a pulp and then mix in the baking soda. Use a soft toothbrush to apply onto your teeth. Leave on for five minutes then brush with toothpaste to remove the strawberry/baking soda paste. If you have any seeds between your teeth, feel free to use floss to remove them. :)

My thoughts:
I've been doing this for many years now and this is my go to teeth whitener when I can't go to the store and get a teeth whitener. Plus teeth whiteners can be expensive so this is a cheaper alternative to those $50+ teeth whiteners. It's use to do and it takes less than ten minutes. I do recommend using strawberries but if you don't have any you can just use baking soda and water to make a teeth whitening paste.

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Chambray Outfit of The Day

Chambray Outfit of The Day by berry557 featuring diamond stacking rings

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Revlon Lip Butter!

Today, I bought the Revlon Color Burst Lip Butter in Cherry Tart and I love it! First of all, it is so smooth. I had no idea how smooth it was. Let me tell you, it glided on like a pair of skates on ice. Second, the red color was exactly what I was looking for. I've been looking for a red lipstick that wasn't too overpowering for my skin tone or make me look like a clown. I find this to be perfect for my skin tone. I can not stop looking at myself in the mirror because it is so pretty on me. Finally, I love how moisturizing it is. It keeps my lips moisturizes unlike other lipsticks, which kind of show off my dry lips sometimes, this doesn't because it's basically hydrating my lips. I can use this as a chapstick and lipstick. This is seriously something I would buy more of. I think I just might buy more this weekend. :)
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I Cry To You

When I cry, it doesn't make me weak but makes me strong. I think crying is a sign that says I can't handle things on my own anymore and I need help. I can't handle everything on my own and I want someone to just tell me that everything will be okay. 

We go through emotions, we go through the day and we go through life sometimes just through motion but things start to add up. It's amazing how in just one day feelings, thoughts, and everything changes. 

It's all about time and what goes on during that time. 

I spend a lot of time with myself and thinking about my life and the people in it. During those alone times, I get emotional and when I feel emotional and don't know what to do, there are certain people that come to mind. 

I recently was texting this guy who I liked and we started arguing for no reason, it's actually what we've been doing lately and I really wanted to cry. And I wanted to be held but not by him, but by a friend that I never in my life would go and vent to. Granted, I never told my friend that because our friendship isn't that. But I found myself wishing that friend was here with me. Knowing though that my friend wouldn't be much of a comfort. But yet I wanted that friend to be there. 

I think if we have a friend that we want around during the sad times in our lives then we should have them around. If you need someone, and feel like there's only person you can go to, then go to that person. 

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Friday: 10 Year Age Gap; Bad Boy; Unable to Open Up

Today I write my 200th blog post! I'm really excited. I've been blogging for a little over a year now and I think I spend more time thinking about what to blog about than I do thinking about writing for my final essay, which I am working on as well. This is what I get to spend my Friday night doing, blogging and essay writing. Good thing it's only a rough draft or I would be in a big big trouble. I have the final essay due a week from today. Anyway, before I keep ranting and procrastinating I shall go on with my advice.

ILoveBlackSkies Asked:
I want your opinion.
I told my friend about this guy I like and I found out he's 26. She thinks I'm a little crazy, what do you think about a senior (I'm 16) dating a 26 year old?

Dear ILoveBlackSkies,
In my opinion, it's probably not a good idea with the 10 year age gap. You're both at different times in your lives. You'll be getting out of high school and he's out in the real world. It'll probably be hard to date each other. I honestly don't think it's a good idea. I think teens should date people closer to their age.
Now I know you can't help who you like so if you like him, I have no reason to be against it because who am I to tell you who to like or not like? This was all just my opinion.

Thursday Beauty: Zit Remedy

Today I woke up with tiny little zits on my face. Not exactly what I wanted to see first thing in the morning so I knew I had to do something about it. So I tried something that I haven't tried in a couple years, sea salt.
Sea salt is a natural way to clear your skin and soften it as well.
Ingredients:
3 tsp sea salt
1/2 cup hot water

Directions:
Mix together the sea salt and hot water. Apply the mixture with a cotton swab and place it on the zit for 15 minutes.

It really helped bring the redness down. It's two simple ingredients and that's what I love about this.

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Loving Red

A Casual Red by berry557 featuring stud earrings

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