A lot of girls and guys struggle with having confidence in themselves. We care so much about what others think of us but we rarely stop to think what we think about ourselves. I have learned over the years that loving myself is important. I've taught myself to stop caring what others think of me and focus on thinking more about how I feel about me. One day I was in my mother's bathroom and read this on a Philosophy bottle Falling in Love;
"Falling in love doesn't begin with falling in love with others. It begins with falling in love with ourselves. Loving ourselves is healthy and as God intended. Learn to deeply and fully cherish your heart, your soul, and your body, and only then will you understand what it is to truly love another."
It's true you know; if you can't love yourself how are you suppose to love another or have someone love you? Loving yourself is very important if you haven't realized it yet.
Accept who you are, embrace your flaws and imperfections, and look in the good that you have to share with the world. Our flaws and imperfections are a part of us and what makes us who we are as individuals. Don't let anyone bring you down. Stop listening to the negative comments because they're not true. What you think of yourself is the most important thing in your life. Not what a guy or girl thinks of you, not what your friends think and not what your family thinks; what you think about yourself is the most important thing. If you think you are beautiful then you are beautiful; if you think you are ugly then you are ugly. It's what you think of yourself that matters.
No one else is you. No one has the creativity you have. No one has unique beauty you have to offer the world. You have to believe in yourself. You have to love yourself. That's why you need to be beautiful for you.
As Dr. Seuss said "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."
Now start thinking positively about yourself. You are beautiful. You are confident. You are amazing. Wear clothes that make you feel beautiful. Do your hair the way you want to. Do something that makes you feel good about yourself. Walk with your head held up high. Positive thinking may seem silly but it makes all the difference when you're trying to believe in yourself. Wake up in the morning and tell yourself positive things. Go to bed at night and tell yourself positive things.
Stay away the negative people because they will only bring you down. The only reason you should talk to them is because they want to love themselves and you are wanting to help them. I always find myself a little bit happier with myself when I do something good for someone else though. Be beautiful for you and no one else.
Be Beautiful For You!
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